Re Teaching

The mid-year swap: what re-teaching actually costs, and how to hand a resistant child a program he has already decided to hate

Issue 18 drew the line between ordinary settling-in friction and a curriculum mismatch worth acting on. This issue is for the family standing on the other side of that decision, the one that has confirmed the mismatch and now has to execute the swap: how much a new program actually costs in re-teaching versus how much it feels like it costs, how to introduce a replacement to a child who walked in already primed to resent it, and what a realistic first two weeks with the new material looks like, subject by subject. Plus the policy dispatch, on where the federal tax credit's proposed regulations and North Carolina's scholarship-organization list stand one week further into the same wait.

Issue 18 gave a family a way to tell a real curriculum mismatch from ordinary adjustment friction. This issue is written for the family that has already done that work and confirmed the mismatch is real: it covers what happens next, which is where most of the actual difficulty in a mid-year swap lives. The re-teaching cost of a new program is smaller than it feels from the outside, because a child who has genuinely learned nothing from a mismatched curriculum has less to unlearn than a parent fears, and a short placement test at the start of the new program, instead of a guess based on grade level, is what keeps a family from re-teaching material the child already has or skipping material the child does not. The harder problem is not academic but relational: a child who has spent six or eight weeks failing at a subject has usually formed an opinion about that subject, not just about the old book, and a new program handed over as a fix for a problem the child has been blamed for tends to inherit that same resistance instead of clearing it. The issue covers how to introduce a replacement without framing it as a verdict on the child, what a realistic first two weeks with new material looks like against the temptation to expect immediate relief, and two worked examples of families executing exactly this kind of subject-specific swap. Plus the policy dispatch: the federal tax credit's end-of-September proposed regulations have not yet arrived, and North Carolina's scholarship-organization list remains unpublished one week after issue 18 reported the same status, both consistent with the timeline already on record, not new developments.